Timing is Everything

Planning a wedding is a time-consuming and arduous task. From the moment a girl says “yes” to that age-old question (okay, who are we kidding here, from the moment she was born) to the moment when the church doors swing open, a bride spends countless hours checking and double checking to make sure her special day is just right.

One thing that is often overlooked by harrowed brides everywhere, however, is a definitive time line that details exactly how the day is going to progress. Having such a plan can greatly alleviate stress on the day of, and can help things flow naturally while allowing for disasters that might sneak up on you.

Things to Consider
Time for photographs
Time for getting your hair styled
Time for makeup
Time for transportation between venues
Time to eat
Time to allow for the unexpected

Talk to your photographer before the big day and decide when exactly you will be taking the majority of your couple/wedding party photos. Many couples choose to do this between the ceremony and the reception, but having a “first look” session of the couple before the ceremony is a growing trend. While you have to break the “don’t see the bride before the wedding” taboo, the stress it takes away from having your guests waiting while you take pictures is worth it for many brides.

Hair and makeup can take a long time to complete – especially if something goes wrong. Plan in advance and do a trial run for hair and makeup the day before so you can see how much time you need to allot as well as work out any kinks.

While you may be tempted to forgo food due to nerves or to make sure you can still zip up your dress, a wholesome meal is something you should not go without on the day of your wedding. Avoid greasy foods that could make your stomach upset or sugary snacks that will lead to a post-snack drop in energy.
Some sliced fruit, a scrambled egg, and a piece of toast will be easy on your stomach while keeping your blood sugar from dropping you into the “bridal meltdown” danger zone.

Last of all, take a deep breath and relax. Go with the flow. If something goes wrong, so be it. Just remember you’re walking out of there married, and that’s what really counts anyhow!